Each has his own purpose in life, his own role to play ,steps to be taken and stars to be reached. that's what i believe in , only those who refuse to play or get mixed in life vortex, losing their own bread crumbs and deny the reality, their own reality ,only those miss out the fun part of life.
people start to look around and judge others trying to get the lead role in every one's else life refusing to be his own hero ,to some that's not enough, almost because they were blind-sided most of the time and when they opened their eyes found that they have lost much along the way ,dreams ,hopes ,happiness .and to them it's too late to start over.
searching around to find the place he want to be, some are in it already ,being lost and distracted by the over load ,he tend to copy others ,follow there own steps causing more harm to himself than just being the wonderful person he is. that person is looking great , i shall copy 'even if it isn't suitable for him', the other is speaking in such way 'copying that too', eventually that person has lost all identity he had that distinguish him from others.
as a result , we will be just copies from each other, different faces ,different clothes but same attitude. imagine setting with yourself or better yet talking to the mirror ,what the hell should that do you any good? or the others!! your will end up losing the ability to be adorable ,unique, worthy ,qualified and with personalty .
being yourself is an exiting experiment. for those who lost the way ,search back and don't be afraid it's better to walk in the darkness that in somebody's else shadow.
other reason,is that people get hurt,pain change them they start to say i should treat others likewise ending up to be what he once hated ,and worse he know what he is doing and refusing to choose to be a better person .all we are thinking about not feeling that pain again ,that ache in your heart that sometimes makes it so hard to just breath .we loos the fight ,the fight with the goodness in us ,in my opinion, people who do that are weak, taking the high speed road , running away from battle rather than standing there and fight for who they are .
recently,i have been asked what is the best way to know others personality? it was an easy one for me , DREAMS i answered that first thing i ask person i've recently met, what is your dream? that tells a lot with little words. ones dreams reveals much about what's going inside their heads ,but i don't judge others dreams ,as you can see, there is no bad dream and good one ,as long as you hold on to your goal you will reach it and find your happy ending. YOUR here is the key word as your happy ending may be my nightmare that what differentiate us .
at the end, dreams and ones personalty must be respected and protected . and me not having the same dreams or goals as you, doesn't make me less, let's just define what we want and respect what others have .if you cant accept it then you should consider shutting your mouth and walking the other direction. world don't need any more fools.
